tw/cw: chest talk, dysphoria, mental health, suicidal thoughts When I was younger, I went through puberty as everyone does, but it definitely came with its challenges of conflicting feelings. I think there's a big difference between dysphoria and disconnect in a trans person's life. When I was younger, I had no distress about my gender... Continue Reading →
Summer Binding: A How-To
This small post is a PSA for all my trans and nonbinary folks that use binders, how to bind safely during the summer! Summer is crazy hot and will only get worse as time goes on (thanks global warming) so for those of us that use binders, it makes summer extra hard to go through!... Continue Reading →
‘They’ Series: Public Conversation
This is the final installment in the series where I talk about how to use the singular pronoun 'They' and other gender-neutral terms. This post is for the public and addressing nonbinary and genderqueer folks in a public setting. This could be at work, at a cafe, at a restaurant, etc. This could also be... Continue Reading →
Showcase: Nonbinary Expression
This post is going to be a showcase of Nonbinary Expression! I took to Twitter and Reddit, asking those who are Nonbinary if they could post pictures of how they express themselves to the world through clothes and their thoughts about it, as well as examine it for myself. These are the results! Nonbinary Expression... Continue Reading →
“They” Series: Friends
Continuing my Series of the singular pronoun "They", I'd like to turn the conversation to friends! The Context: You are a nonbinary person's best friend. Maybe you've known them your whole life, or two years. Maybe you're their peer in a college class, a coworker at their occupation, or just an acquaintance that wants to... Continue Reading →
Nonbinary: A Woman’s Experience
Two facts: I am Trans, and two weeks ago, I started a new job. New jobs by themselves can be daunting, but I think that there is an extra layer when you add being Trans or even just part of the LGBTQ community to that experience. I am lucky that my job supports me being... Continue Reading →
I started my new job! It's a great one and I'm proud of myself for getting it. Although I have some...personal worries. My first three days I've had tension/heat/dehydration migraines. They make me stressed, on top of the pressure that I put on myself for no reason now that I'm a "lead", and that pressure... Continue Reading →
LGBTQIA Rights Don’t “Stop” With Marriage
I...have a lot of opinions and feelings right now. So you can take this opinion that I have into consideration or dismiss it as rambling and continue your day, your choice. LGBTQIA rights don't end with marriage. Many conservatives like to think that that's it, the gays have all the rights they need! And that... Continue Reading →
Pride Month Part Two
Hello everyone welcome to Pride Month Part Two! There's been a lot of talk on social media about July being kind of like a Pride Month Part two. (Pride Month just angrier). This is mostly stemmed from the fact that at the end of Pride Month, a lot of businesses, family members, friends, and people... Continue Reading →
Being A Nonbinary Trans Wiccan
Changing gears from talking about testosterone and top surgery, I wanted to talk about spirituality, in conjuncture, my own. When I was younger I was Christian. Presbyterian I guess. But only because my mom and grandparents were. And so, my own path of spirituality didn't start until I was ten. I was always a kid... Continue Reading →