tw/cw: chest talk, dysphoria, mental health, suicidal thoughts When I was younger, I went through puberty as everyone does, but it definitely came with its challenges of conflicting feelings. I think there's a big difference between dysphoria and disconnect in a trans person's life. When I was younger, I had no distress about my gender... Continue Reading →
*******CW: Mental Health, self talk.******** *******Disclaimer: These are my thoughts and my experience only. Everyone is different. I am not saying that everyone who is doing self-care is "just depressed", or that every one that is depressed should "just do self-care". This is just what I noticed about myself.******* + + + + + +... Continue Reading →
This small post is a PSA for all my trans and nonbinary folks that use binders, how to bind safely during the summer! Summer is crazy hot and will only get worse as time goes on (thanks global warming) so for those of us that use binders, it makes summer extra hard to go through!... Continue Reading →
This is the final installment in the series where I talk about how to use the singular pronoun 'They' and other gender-neutral terms. This post is for the public and addressing nonbinary and genderqueer folks in a public setting. This could be at work, at a cafe, at a restaurant, etc. This could also be... Continue Reading →
CW: Borderline Personality disorder, Mental Episode, Panic attack, Mental health, Graphic Description. . . . . . . . For Mental Health Awareness Month I wanted to write out what it feels like when I have a Borderline Personality episode. .. .. .. .. .. My heart is beating out of my chest. My head... Continue Reading →
When trying to figure out ideas for nonbinary topics, I realized that I've talked about the nonbinary pronoun 'they' but there are also differences to contexts in which people saying the pronoun might learn to use it. There's family, friends, kids, ect. So this blog series is going to be for those people in a... Continue Reading →
As unbelievably cringy as this title sounds, it's a valid question. What are your dreams made of? Your ambitions, your drive. I ask myself this a lot and always wonder whether I am on the right path. In this time of strenuous politics and economy, I wonder if I can live a fulfilling life without... Continue Reading →
Have you ever had a person, a potential employer, your parents, your grandparents, your high school counselor, your college counselor, your cats in your head, ever ask you what you're passionate about? And you just think....What AM I passionate about? We get so caught up in our lives of work, school, hobbies, or our mental... Continue Reading →
I started my new job! It's a great one and I'm proud of myself for getting it. Although I have some...personal worries. My first three days I've had tension/heat/dehydration migraines. They make me stressed, on top of the pressure that I put on myself for no reason now that I'm a "lead", and that pressure... Continue Reading →
Update, I have a job! Yes, I am no longer a jobless bum who makes unwise choices in life. Hard work does pay off kids, I got a Lead Grocery job at New Seasons! They are a progressive and friendly company and I'll even get my pronouns on my badge! Working for somewhere like New... Continue Reading →
Nonbinary Birds 